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A agree with the first part "There is no intention for the caregiver to know me" - but I don't agree with the second part "Therefore the world is not created inside of themselves" - that is wrong - the world is created inside themselves, but they know that it can be 1) dangerous to let others know it exists and/or 2) it goes underground until such time as it is safe to find expression for it. It doesn't mean that they are less human or don't have an inner world or a soul. All people are born with it, it is the expression of it that changes in relation to their formative experiences.

Wow great I heard one video that they cancel the left brain but something Wass off better to integrate both

I have found a lot of help with wimhoff breathing and psychedelics

I'm back here after many years, because I heard he's quite on board with the polyvagal work led by Stephen Porges. They are using different metaphors, but I think they are actually saying the same thing.

Cherophobia was mentioned in this video, but not named. That's the trigger to existentialism.

Learn something every day. Thank you.

This woman is a doctor in the same sense that a trans woman is a woman: kind of, but not really.

Frightened and confused behaviour of the caregiver

Collection of terrifying experiences

I have this attachment style and I had a relatively decent childhood. My mom had borderline personality disorder and my dad had mental issues as well. I definitely experienced neglect and emotional abuse. I always thought disorganized attachment developed out of extreme situations but.. I don’t really view my situation as that extreme yet I definitely have this. It’s such a challenge to live with.

Appreciable

I need session like that I have exactly same😢

yikes. i'm a zombie.

Women in the United States live by this motto.

I need help here I also have critical internal monologue in which I thinks it's a different person who is controlling me and judging my every move like if I am walking I get inner voice go back to this place and walk again like this or if I am taking anything I have to do this move 3 to 4 times I get voices if I don't do this bad thing happens which I am afraid of and I do this than it don't happen it's soo frustrating can anyone help me here please

Unforgivable a harassment group stalked me every day - burglarized my home - damaged my property- electronic intrusion on all my devices- all accounts hacked- almost 7 years of it - has impacted my brain and health- maybe permanently.

I was also viewing this in terms of neurodivergence as a decent amount of adhd have a more disorganized style, and then you try your best to get out of and expand beyond your issues and stuff and eventually get smacked down and make some mistake that leads to abandonment in something you poured yourself into and in the process of trying to fix your self it’s like you learn so much about people and trying to understand one self and them that the whole f’ing society dosent ever with any amount of research come off in a way that it’s going to meet any of your needs and just use you and spit you out and OMFG there is that side of the internet showing how women and men work, and that while it dosent show you how to have a secure attatchment in relationships(that’s important) even though it does talk a lot of truth of patterns, though can be a bit black and white, and then you you struggle with the fact that apparently you have to play office politics and learn that and then understanding the whole bio/psycho/social/cultural model of causation and then ignoring what the news says but understanding politics from that bio/psycho/social and evolutionary why, cognitive process, behavioral implementation in the physical and social enviroment and the odds are you are at home with one of the parents trying to figure all this out all the while the entire world has been turned into a 3d chess game that no body no institution no religion no country no nothing every gave you any help in navigating and it’s like some days your fighting to fix and others your hopeless and you occilate between a sort of fighting to fix and control what you can and find out what you can and shutting down with a why even try sort of learned helplessness. And it’s like the only option is to start your own company or completely homestead because “fuck others” despite being. hyper extravert, it’s like no end to this. But some things we can make more progress on. And it sucks when there are social skills you can learn that on average make things go better, but because nothing works with everybody 100% of the time, well odds are most things that work with many, don’t work with that one person you have in front of you to practice on.

Tanks. A fantastic Keep it simple and shorts example🫶

This so-called expert is clueless to reality. She should have her license removed for not even knowing the basics. Men struggle far more than women in today's society. Women receive far more help in Western society, and yet many women may continue to struggle due to their own choice, incapacities, etc. And when equality is not enough, they turn to equity to get even more. To feminists, it's all about securing power and that necessarily means that they must be misandrists.

Clonidine can Help, also Propranolol

Not me No children

Nah my inner voice is really a dickhead lol no one talks to me like he does. Voice memos on your iphone... have a conversation with them. Turns out you can just confront that voice and its really frail and insecure. If you dont fight back it just keeps telling you how to think. I started recording myself talking to the voice and it talking back to me.... its crazy the things that this voice was telling me. Finding out you are your biggest hater is quite the revelation.

Could this be why I sabotaged my 25 year marriage with two affairs? I match this attachment theory

So true

Im a psychopath. God fried all of my neurons when he was preparing my first breakfast. // The problem is, i think he did it on purpose. I’m afraid that God….is _just like me._

What I find really confusing is that in my journey to find emotional balance I have ahd to learn over 20 things and unpack multiple things that as a child you would never have to learn if you were in a secure attachment. Why is this?

Katsugan movements are so powerful

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wow. this video is so validating. i'm in the process of analyzing the narrative identity that i completed a few months back, and also changing the most destructive narratives with a support group. i am so grateful rn.

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Reliving unresolved abuse, abandonment and trauma is so true especially when triggered by mirror neurons.

Omg😮

OMG my ex was like this when I would raise my hand

Me

so grateful for this man

I was/am still terrified of my mother. I am 55 years old. I finally went no contact 5 years ago.

Whats he saying? Healing is starting to sound like witchcraft and snake oil at this stage...

Really rings a bell,❤ was diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic 1983 , critical inner voice ran me in into a psych ward ,,,Thanks for the incites 😊

I can't even staand up straight am always in fight/flight. Trying to catch myself and relax but natural state is not good at all. Ruined my whole life....

Suicide is like an evil spirit that enters people 💔

Sounds in line with a lot of Yoga exercises.

Another narcissist playbook video to gaslight others into to thinking they have a mental illness. In reality, they are mentally ill wackos. Try all natural massage therapy. It works.

This can't be your cover when you were the one who pinned me in it

WOW DR. Gill Igan BRUICH WOULD BE PROUD

❤thank you ❤

Just from the way he talks, I sense no bullshit . He is legit. He wants to help people.

He doesn’t explain though what we can do with this understanding. How do we reach the rest and digest state when we’re stuck in the lower two states? I recommend Unlearn Your Pain by Howard Schubiner to resolve past trauma and find safety.

Yeah in this case you shut off because you can't be there.

Yes and the way he places past on present like that is just the way many are describing as our multidimentional reality. It made mexslile, just like the reporter, Sonya, Tree of knowledge You tube. Multidimentional reality, one stacked upon another.